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Unveiling life’s purpose and joyful fulfillment.

Life lessons

Written by Sophie Parienti

You’ve probably wondered why you get up in the morning, and you questioned the very essence of your existence, haven’t you?

This universal curiosity transcends age, background, and circumstance. It isn’t about setting financial targets for the year or making a timeline for parenthood. No, this quest for purpose is finding the compelling force that propels us out of bed each morning, unhesitatingly harmonizing our existence and nurturing our growth.

Here are some suggestions to guide you in addressing these inquiries so that you can uncover the purpose of your existence and experience a satisfying life.Knowing your life purpose means understanding your existence’s profound meaning and direction. Sometimes, this is an intuitive process. Often, or at different times in our lives, it’s the result of a genuine inner quest that stems from reflection on ourselves, our values, our passions, our relationships, our aspirations, our contribution, and even our spirituality.

You get it; for some of us, finding the meaning of our lives requires a deep self-exploration.

By asking yourselves a few pertinent questions, as below, you will gain valuable insights and give yourself a chance to (re)discover your life’s purpose.

  • What’s my main interest?
  • What activity makes me lose track of time?
  • What am I passionate about?
  • What are my strengths and talents?
  • What is my true gift? (Yes, we all have one at least!)
  • What can I get paid for that matches my values and strengths?
  • How can I have an impact on the world?
  • At what point have I felt most fulfilled, and why?

Here are a few tips to help you answer these questions and find information that will help you discover the meaning of your life and live a satisfying and fulfilling life.

Identify what you adore doing.

Identifying what excites, engages, or even fascinates and passionates you will go a long way toward answering these questions: What’s my main interest? What am I passionate about?

Whether it’s an artistic or creative activity, helping others, teaching, or solving complex problems, the pleasure you derive from the commitment to this activity will give you a valuable indication of what you’re meant to do in life.

If, despite reflecting on your current activities, you can’t find anything that moves you, open the door to the unknown and try new activities and experiences. Eventually, you’ll find what resonates with you and brings you joy.

Identify your strengths.

Answering these questions, what are my strengths and talents, and what is my true gift, will guide you towards your life goal. I’m talking here about your skills acquired through learning and those you don’t even know you have, which come from your natural aptitudes.

How do you identify the latter? By listening to your desire to do this or that and eliminating potential limiting beliefs that make you think you won’t excel. These strengths, which you may already know or those you’ll discover through a new activity or experience, will tell you what will enable you to flourish and significantly influence the meaning you give to your life.

Define your core values.

Your core values are the principles that matter most to you. It would be best if you were aligned with them daily, weekly, or monthly to give your life meaning and fulfillment. Think about what’s most important to you in the areas of family, society, work, environment, etc., and explore which life purpose and direction best reflects and even reinforces these values. Ensure these values serve you toward a healthier, happier, more present you. It will lead you to answer the question: How can I impact the world?

Evaluate what can be rewarded.

It might not appear crucial at first glance, but it truly is. Knowing that our actions bring satisfaction and add to our own or others’ well-being is a significant advantage. Conversely, linking our sense of purpose to an endeavor that doesn’t enhance our quality of life runs the risk of causing frustration and insecurity. Over time, this can sap our motivation to start our day enthusiastically.

So, consider it as a “return on investment”! Ask yourself: What can I get paid for that matches my values and strengths? Or what activities align with my values and strengths, offering rewards beyond financial gain?

Dare and act.

Sometimes, you must dare and act to find your purpose in life. Don’t be afraid to try new things and explore different paths. If you know what you’re passionate about or attracted to, go for it! And if you still need to identify an area of interest, ask yourself: What makes me lose the notion of time and space? Find a course, sign up for something – in short, commit. By taking action, you’ll have a clearer idea of what drives you and, therefore, of the path you need to follow to give meaning to your life.

Keep an open mind and be patient.

Finding your life’s purpose can take time. It’s usually the result of a process that often requires adjustments along the way. So be patient. Don’t judge yourself when you feel you’re not making progress. Instead, ask yourself: When have I felt most fulfilled, and why? The answers could lead you to pinpoint moments where you were indeed on your life’s purpose but were unaware of it. And don’t hesitate to gather advice and information here and there. It will open up new perspectives and opportunities.

To conclude.

Uncovering the essence of life is a voyage that guides one toward a rewarding and meaningful existence. Like any expedition, it’s not the destination that matters most but the journey itself. So, don’t hesitate to delve deep within yourself, take risks, and take action. Explore your passions, harness your strengths, align with your values, and venture into what part of others’ lives seems exciting. Most importantly, exercise patience and perseverance, for the journey, however lengthy, is genuinely worthwhile.

Furthermore, remember that once you’ve unearthed the “why” that fuels your mornings, there may come a time when you feel a dip in motivation further along your journey. It is entirely natural, for the meaning of our lives transforms alongside our evolution. When this happens, view it as an opportunity to make the necessary adjustments and rekindle your purpose in experiencing the world anew. Embrace change, and let it be a source of ongoing inspiration on your ever-evolving path.

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