One of the main mistakes we make in a relationship is to believe that our partner knows what we want from them and the relationship. Yet rarely have we opened up fully about it, and the very fact that we think they should know is at the base of most frustrations and conflicts arising.

Opening up to the other person and communicating clearly and authentically is the common denominator of all relationships that work well, whether in love, friendship, or business.

So, while there is no doubt that your partner has many qualities, remember that they are not necessarily psychic. And, most importantly, at the slightest frustration you begin to feel, ask yourself these questions:

Have I opened up to them about my needs?
Have I expressed what is essential to me?
Have I communicated my expectations clearly and authentically?

When you take charge of your relational well-being by opening up to your partner about your needs, you allow them to meet your expectations.