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Journaling: Why and how to start?

Self-development

Written by Sophie Parienti

The activity of writing a diary is not without evoking that of a teenager struggling to express himself and be understood. Or, more dramatically, that of the famous Anne Frank, whose writings sadly illustrate history.

But this practice is not exclusive to young people. Many adults have also recorded their stories and thoughts in a diary.

Journaling has regained popularity and is even promoted by numerous coaches and therapists.

I am writing this article to encourage you to journal, regardless of your writing experience. It is an outstanding technique to calm down and gain perspective on our emotions. By doing so, we can have more clarity about ourselves and approach the obstacles we face with a sense of calmness, overcome them, and ultimately develop ourselves.

But let’s not stop there! Look closely at all the fantastic things journaling can do for you. And once you see all its benefits, you’ll be eager to get started. Don’t worry; I’ll guide you through the process and make it easy.

The many benefits of journaling.

1. Journaling is a way to practice mindfulness.

This mindfulness practice, which can be compared to meditation, helps us overcome our problems by bringing us back to the present moment. By concentrating on writing, one lives in the moment, free of yesterday’s issues and those on the horizon. We then enter a state of serenity conducive to well-being, which generates in the body the hormone dopamine, responsible for our happiness. 

2. Writing in a journal helps to manage stress and anxiety.

Writing down our thoughts, freeing our mind by unloading what is going through it, and giving a concrete existence to our torments on paper, allows us to unblock our emotions and evacuate stress and anxiety. It helps us become aware of what is happening inside us, observe our emotional states, and decide on strategies to manage them effectively.

3. Journaling helps us to know ourselves better.

By writing down our thoughts and feelings, we can become more aware of our needs and better understand the beliefs that drive us, our values, and our priorities. In short, we develop a better sense of ourselves and what we want to experience or exclude from our experiences. Writing becomes a way to decide for ourselves, undertake the changes necessary for our transformation, and realize our desires and goals.

4. Journaling builds self-esteem and confidence.

The additional benefit of journaling is that the production of dopamine and endorphins associated with writing helps boost morale. Indeed, we appreciate ourselves all the more when we feel good. Thus, the more we write, the more we develop our capacity to observe our life positively. Our diary gradually becomes the catalog of our successes and pleasures, enough to satisfy our self-esteem and self-confidence.

5. Writing a diary allows us to move towards realizing our goals.

Writing down what we want and our goals in a notebook gives them substance. In this way, our brain begins to program the information we concretize on paper. And the more we go into detail, the more it can lead us to their realization. Hence the importance of writing regularly to progressively develop our capacity to positively transform our words and stories to keep us in the virtuous circle of manifesting what we want.

6. Writing in a journal helps develop creativity.

When we are in front of our journal, it’s just us and white pages. There is no censorship, no outside judgment to thwart our need for expression. So, as we go along, we unleash our fantasy, let our imagination run free, and allow the creative person we are to come to life. And this contributes to realizing ourselves beyond what we constructed ourselves to be.

So if you want to enjoy the benefits of writing, you must get a book and start filling its pages. And if you believe you can’t do it or don’t know how to start, here are a few tips to get you started.

Advice on how to start journaling.

1. Overcome mental objections to journaling.

Before you could speak, you did not know the verbal language. Before you could walk, your muscles couldn’t support you. Before you could write, you were scribbling on paper. So, journaling, which does not require a writer’s talent, only involves the will to do it. Start, and it will become an easy and flowing process over time.

2. Free yourself from the belief that you don’t have time.

No matter how hard you try to convince me that you don’t have time to write, I won’t go along with you. If you were asked to free up 10 minutes a day to spend more time in bed in the morning, to do your favorite activity, to extend your lunch break, or to catch up with your co-worker, you would find it. If you decide to devote some time to journaling, treat this regular activity as an appointment, a commitment, and make it a priority. You will soon realize that you do have that time. Even better, make it a non-negotiable scheduled time in your calendar with a gentle reminder!

3. Choose your material carefully.

It may seem trivial, but it’s not. Pick a journal that is easy to write in. not too thick, not too narrow, with or without lines depending on your preference, easy to carry or put in a bag, etc. Choose one you enjoy looking at; it will encourage you to take care of it and write in it daily. Regarding your pen, choose one that gives you a comfortable writing experience and produces aesthetically pleasing lines, enhancing your enjoyment of using it and facilitating easy revisiting of your journal.

4. Assign a place for your journal.

Enjoy the manifold benefits of this simple yet effective habit of returning your notebook to the same spot. You’ll save time and avoid the possible excuse of not finding your notebook by always knowing where it is, whether in your desk drawer, bedside, or handbag. Plus, you can quickly write down your thoughts and ideas whenever they come to you!

5. Choose a particular time to write.

Morning, noon, or evening, weekdays or weekends, it doesn’t matter. What counts is regularity and repetition so that it becomes part of your routine. While I recommend filling out your journal daily, it’s best to start with less to be sure to keep up. It is also essential to set a potential specific time for writing. Again, start with ten rather than thirty minutes to avoid breaking your commitment. The important thing here is to do what you say you will do. Gradually and naturally, you will increase your enjoyment and the amount of time you devote to your journal.

6. Decide on a structure for your journal.

You can divide your journal into chapters or decide to write about a certain number of topics each day. The idea is that your journal should not be just a collection of your worries. Here are some examples of subjects you might decide to write about:

  • Description of your day: You will describe what you did and what happened.
  • Objectives: You will discuss your projects, desires, and goals and set your missions.
  • The day’s mood: You will express your emotions, feelings, and mind.
  • Inspirational quotes: You write quotes from authors or what you’ve heard that inspired you.
  • The gratitude of the day: Beautiful weather, a smile, a lovely tree, a great conversation, you will write everything that makes you feel grateful!
  • Memories: You will stick on your page a bill from a restaurant where you had a good time, a ticket from a museum you liked, a note on which someone left you a nice message, etc.

7. Additional tips to make journaling effective.

  • Note down the date you write on top of the page. It will be helpful if you reread passages in your journal later.
  • Make a list of several topics in advance. That way, you can choose one to avoid overthinking when you run out of inspiration.
  • Write in the first person. It will help you go further in your introspective work.
  • Be authentic. The goal is to understand yourself better to go further on your path of consciousness, not to pretend anything to yourself!
  • Don’t worry about grammar and spelling; no one will be behind you to give you a grade, so don’t let that stop your flow.
  • Use lots of detail in your writing. It will make it easier for you to return to the context of your stories and better understand the issues.
  • If you like to draw, do it. Anything that facilitates expression is a positive outlet.

Conclusion.

As you have understood, writing in a journal can be a tool to improve your emotional, mental, and, consequently, physical well-being. Because we know the body and the mind work together, we release tension in both when we allow ourselves to unwind creatively on paper.

If you are stressed or anxious, can’t see clearly in your life, feel overwhelmed by your emotions, are going through a difficult time, or want to enjoy the various benefits of journaling, you know what you must do: write into a journal.

And since you now know how to incorporate it into your daily routine and overcome your objections, all you have to do is to start!  

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